- Subdue self-will in a child and thus work together with God to save his soul.
- Teach him to pray as soon as he can speak.
- Give him nothing he cries for and only what is good for him if he asks for it politely.
- To prevent lying, punish no fault which is freely confessed, but never allow a rebellious, sinful act to go unnoticed.
- Commend and reward good behavior.
- Strictly observe all promises you have made to your child.
—Susannah Wesley (Mother of John Wesley )